My May London Getaway with Mom

14 May 2006 - 16 May 2006



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Sunday, 14 May


My mother and I awoke bright and early in order to take our two metros to Gare du Nord, where the Eurostar awaited us. As we went through the immigration lines, I requested, in my very best French, for the official to stamp on a new page (as I handed him the passport with a thumb on a fresh page). The official acknowledged me, smiled, and placed the "departing Paris" atrocity over my beloved Belize stamp.

Well, at that stage I was certainly ready for some English hospitality!

We were in Car 3 on the Eurostar, and as we approached we noticed a large group of late-twenty-somethings boarding the train. They were all dressed to the nines, but looked as though they had been put through the wringer. Very obviously a case of heading to Paris for an all-night party, and as we climbed aboard, one jokingly told us "you may want to switch cars, as we're a rowdy bunch." My mother turned and said, "so are we."

As we headed to our assigned seats, we realized that they had been commandeered by the group and we simply asked them which were their original seats so we could take those instead. I have to admit that I was a bit grumpy at this stage, since our assigned seats were facing in the direction of the train and the new ones weren't, and I get a bit queasy in reverse transit, but I sucked it up for the sake of Mother's Day and we buckled ourselves into our new (inferior) seats. It was at this stage that my mother commented "Oh, they've had so much fun. Heading into Paris for a wile night. And I love their accents." To which I replied, "Yes, but they all looked shagged-out," and she told me I was a party pooper.

The train started, and soon after we realized exactly what our neighbors had in store for us. They hadn't actually *stopped* drinking, and combined with the smoking, spilling of drinks and massive amounts of peanuts on the floor, it felt like more of an Aussie hostel than the Eurostar. One of the girls (closest to us) spent the entire trip trying to endear herself to one of the guys, though he was probably too plastered to know it and she had dirt smeared all over her legs and onto her red party dress. And one of the guys, poor Jamie, was passed out while the other fifteen partiers came to harass him with "Jamie, are you okay? Wake up," until he finally did and spent the last thirty minutes of the trip groping his matchingly-hammered wife.

However, the effect on me of all of this activity was exactly the opposite as on my mother. While she was ready to be sick from the stale smoke/alcohol/possibly vomit smell that had permeated the car and was absolutely sick of their accents, I was getting a fair bit of a kick out of the entire situation, and by the time we arrived, I was in good spirits once again. Luckily we spent only a few minutes at Waterloo, as the huuuuuge line for tube tickets was merely a decoy. I went around the corner to possibly find a ticket machine, and instead found two more ticket windows completely deserted of customers. We bought our three-day travelpasses and hopped onto the tube, transferring once and alighting at Aldgate.

It was about 10:30am, so I thought we would swing by our hotel to inquire about bag storage. We nabbed one of those 26£ saver deals from the Travelodge Liverpool Street, though I was slightly hesitant about booking a Travelodge over a boutique hotel for my mom's Mother's Day present. When we arrived, we were sadly told that there were no on-site storage facilities. However, upon handing the receptionists my booking confirmation (printed out, within a bound copy of our weekend itinerary), they had such a laugh at my anal-retentiveness that they "apologized" by letting us check in early...into the disabled room on the top floor! Perhaps they considered OCD a disability.

As we made our way to the elevator, we both noticed the smell of cleaning supplies, which made us very comfortable in the hotel. There was a half-flight of stairs before getting to the elevator (but there was a chair-lift in place to help disabled customers, in case anyone is wondering). As we entered our room, I thought we were in paradise. I had been warned that the Travelodge was clean, but very small. However, this room was about five times the size of the last hotel room I had in London (the Holiday Villa Hotel, for anyone taking notes), and it was *clean*. Wonderfully clean. There was a spacious open closet in the entrance "hallway," and a desk with large mirror and television (which we never used because my mom couldn't get it to work and thought it would cost us 6£...I think she was right about the cost, but I'm sure we could have gotten it to work if we'd read the instructions). Then there was enough room for us to do side-by-side, synchronized cartwheel-round-off-back-handspring combos before we reached the large, comfortable bed. To keep the review grounded, I'll say that there could have been two pillows per person, since one didn't really cut it (there was a third in the closet, but I'll make you guess which one of us took it). There was additional lighting and all controls were from the end tables, which was nice. Now the bathroom: This bathroom was huge, but that was probably because it was a disabled room. The bathtub was deep and there were railings everywhere, along with a seat for the tub. The toilet was also surrounded by retractable railings. We were told how *not* to trip the alarm, but when we got to the bathroom we noticed that the pull-cord was so short that the only way someone could trip it would be if they slipped and fell onto the ceiling. As our goal was to *not* use the alarm, we were in no danger. There was more than sufficient space to store our plethora of toiletries, and there were towel warmers on the door. In addition, the room had a very heavy curtain to keep out morning light (and the noise of The City, since we didn't hear much of anything).

After brushing our teeth and oohing and aahing about our Travelodge, we headed to the Liverpool Street Station to catch a bus to Camden Markets. Though that was on the itinerary for Tuesday, I didn't think all the stalls would be open then and just wanted to give my mom a quick look around. We rode on the top of the bus while she took pictures of not-so-exciting things on the way to Camden Town, and then we spent about an hour rushing through the crowds and eating curries (I chose Moroccan this time, but it tasted pretty much exactly like the Indian I had last time and the Malaysian my mom had). The weather held out for us by not pouring, but it was more than a bit on the cold and windy side. We had both packed lightweight sweaters (my fault, as I bullied her into removing the extra ten sets of clothing from her bag), and that was barely cutting it.

We then hopped back on the bus and back off near the Notting Hill Gate, walking to Kensington Gardens via some very lovely residential streets. After we'd each picked our London home, we took the audio tour of the Palace (boy, is that Nigel long-winded!), then walked out into the gardens for a stroll. Three cheers for the 2-for-1 passes. We noted the beauty of the Diana Memorial and then got into the line for tea at the Orangery. It was only about a ten-minute wait to get an inside table (as it was way too cold to sit outside), and everything about the Orangery was perfect for tea. Well, almost everything. There were two problems in actuality, with a possibility of a third. The first problem I noticed was when I wanted to wash my hands. Why does such a lovely place have such horrid keycards to get into the bathroom? I felt like I was using a bathroom pass, and had to maneuver quite stealthily to keep from having dirtier hands after washing them than before. There was a cute young girl "working" there that could just as easily been the bathroom attendant (as she wasn't actually accomplishing much as a server), which would have eliminated the need for the card/wood system. I discovered the second problem as my mom left to wash her hands. The Orangery has very high ceilings, which make for some great acoustics. However, in a place such as this, I cannot fathom why three women would make that the place for their infants' playdate. I cut them some slack with it being Mother's Day, but I really considered it quite rude to bring three *screaming* babies to tea, drowning out all other attempted conversations. That said, the Orangery Tea was just plain fun, though we both agreed that the sponge cake was unnecessary. Cucumber sandwiches without crusts and scones with clotted cream and jam were the perfect accompaniment to our Darjeeling (I think) tea. I also converted my mother to a clotted cream addict, and it was nice to have the company! The third issue was that a pigeon had flown in the building and couldn't seem to find his way out. My mother has detested birds ever since Mr. Hitchcock gave us such a great idea of them, but even she thought it was hilarious how this bird just kept flying from landing to landing. One of the servers had put up all of the windows (and it was cooold...that was really the third problem, and not the fact that there was a bird in there), yet the bird was just flying from side to side. I can only imagine how often this happens, as none of the waitstaff seemed particularly surprised. I'm just happy I wasn't drinking milk, as it would have started coming out my nose by then. I wonder if the pigeon just hadn't left because he didn't have the opposable thumbs required for the hall pass.

After our tea, we attempted to leave the Palace as we had entered, but some gates and doors had been closed. So I popped back into the gift shop, mom in tow, and asked how to exit the Palace. I suppose my question was ambiguous, though I would have thought that by the powers of deduction, the staff member would have realized that I meant "onto the street" and not "out of the door I just entered to ask the question." Though there it was, the instruction to "just step out that door." I almost didn't make it out of said door before I started laughing, and my mom was almost rolling on the grass at that stage. Keep in mind that I had, just earlier that day, told her of my experience at Versailles when I asked if I needed a separate ticket for the private tour or if the combined ticket was sufficient (in my best French, of course). The woman answered that I only needed the one ticket, so I happily pranced out the door, only to run into a friend who also wanted to take the tour. Thus, I accompanied her back to the office to purchase her ticket, and was greeted by a loud sigh by the same woman, followed by "You haven't understand!" So it's official and universal: I am apparently destined to be considered a moron by all palace staff.

We then hopped onto a bus that took us to Regent Street, and poked into a few shops (buying a traditional newsboy-type cap for my grandfather and some English soaps, bubble bath and lotions for ourselves) before they closed. We then booked it to very quickly check out Covent Garden, and hopped onto the tube there to make it to the Jack the Ripper Haunt walk at 7pm. Oops. I thought I was giving my mother a heart attack with the train change at Monument (where you actually walk between two stations), and then realized as we were alighting at Tower Hill that the walk wasn't until 7:30pm. It all worked out for the best, however, as we were able to sneak into a very snobby-looking hotel to use the lobby restrooms (against strict orders not to do so by a very official-looking sign posted IN the bathroom...like I'm going to change my mind at that stage of the game). We then hopped back into a station to grab some coffee to take with us on the tour (as it was getting colder). I should note that neither of us experienced a single bad cup of coffee while in London. For a country known for tea, I have to commend England for its respect of other hot drinks. Even my decaf was good.

Donald Rumbelow wasn't in town, unfortunately, but we decided to go with the non-blue badge guide (we had our choice of three, as it was a very large group), since he had a nice Irish accent and we were standing closest to him. The tour was quite entertaining, though I'm not exactly sure how historically accurate it was. No matter, though, as neither of us are writing a book on the subject. There were some tense moments, however, as we passed other Jack the Ripper tours and the guides gave each other a once-over. I felt a bit like having a West Side Story-esque rumble. We also met up with a nice girl from Chicago, and stopped into a pub with her after the tour for a pint. After all, we needed to replenish our energy from all the Ripper- and prostitute-related jokes we made (all in bad form, I admit). And the lovely thing about the tour was that it was very near our hotel. A quick walk through some narrow, dark, scary alleyways and we were back in business. We then spent the late evening soaking our feet in bubble bath and preparing them for the next day's activities. Even my insomniac mother slept soundly.

Monday, 15 May


We got a later start to the day than I'd imagined, but had bought our tickets to the Tower of London (another three cheers for the 2-for-1 passes) by about 9:15am. I suggested that we pop into the big gift shop outside the Tower for a few minutes so we could catch the next tour at 9:30am, but my mother took quite a liking to the shop and we missed the next tour (not in vain, however, because we do have some nice "Royal Family Playing Cards" to show for it). When we did make it into the Tower, we decided to do the Crown Jewels and then come back for the next tour, instead of waiting 25 minutes while doing nothing. We must have ridden the moving walkway four or five times, all the time with my mom saying, "Oh, they can’t all be real," and me arguing "Uh-huh" followed by her "Nuh-uhs." Pinnacles of class.

By the time we had finished looking through that gift shop, we'd missed the next tour, so we went to see Hank's armour and other fun things. After that gift shop, we'd missed another tour, so we just waited inside the nearest shop for the next tour to start (yes, buying more things along the way). However, the tour was worth it. This time we had the only Marine Yeoman Warden. A great, entertaining tour, though some of the stories contradicted the ones I heard the last time I was at the Tower (but both versions of each story were well-executed). It was only then that I realized that the Wardens also do Jack the Ripper tours. I think those must really be quite entertaining, though I was somewhat disappointed to hear that these decorated servicemen are moonlighting as regular old tour guides. It was a bit like finding out that Santa isn't real (that wasn't Earth-shattering, either, considering I'm Jewish, but you know what I mean).

We then popped back into the tube after taking a picture of Tower Hill, alighting at Big Ben and again with good Underground-purchased coffee. We took a leisurely stroll, taking in the Houses of Parliament and Westminster Abbey, and then walked through St. James's Park to Buckingham Palace. After that, we followed theartgirl's wonderful suggestion of walking through Green Park to the food halls of Fortnum & Mason. We bought some F&M tea assortments and some Lemon Curd Cookies, along with some snacks, and then hopped on the bus to Harrods.

At Harrods, we were given samples of perfume and lotion, and slowly made our way to have tea at Cafe Harrods (I think). We again enjoyed scones with clotted cream, and followed our tea by buying a guidebook for our Barcelona trip the next weekend. After Harrods, we meandered up the street, stopping in a wonderful lighting gallery where I picked out the chandelier I would buy for my London house. We then hopped onto a bus bound for Covent Garden, where we hadn't spent much time the previous day. A quick wander around and a sample of some ginger tea later, we walked into the theatre district just in time for it to start raining. We were making our way to Rock and Sole Plaice, but instead took cover in an inviting pub. We had a couple of pints and noticed that Fish & Chips were on the menu, so we ordered them and crossed our fingers. It turns out that we made a good decision, as the food was as good as the beer. We also made friends with the folks at the table next to us, some Kiwis with a surf/ski/outdoor sport shop just around the corner. After a nice chat, we decided to take the tube back to the hotel for a repeat of the foot treatment from the night before.

Tuesday, 16 May


The next morning, we decided to leave our bags in the room for our first activity, with the hope that we could make it back by noon to check-out on time. My mom wasn't too keen on the idea of Sir John Soane's museum, but changed her mind as soon as we entered the house. We both very much enjoyed the house(s), especially imagining his sense of humour. A delight was the way the walls in the painting room slide away to reveal more paintings! We were told the riveting story of the Egyptian sarcophagus by one of the Soane staff, and then it was time to head back to the hotel to pick up our bags (which had multiplied at this stage due to all the shopping we'd done).

We then took the tube to the Imperial War Museum. My mother asked that we go, since her friend insisted that it was the best attraction in all of London. My husband had also said that it was very well done, but added that it probably wouldn't be my ball of wax. Thus, I had no idea what to expect. The walk from the Elephants and Monkeys (or is that Elephant & Castle) station wasn't too impressive, but the area closest to the museum looked as though it was undergoing gentrification. We were stopped a couple of times by people asking for money, but the looks on our faces (carrying all of our bags) deterred many more, methinks.

Luckily there was a bag check, and we were free to wander around the museum empty-handed. The bag-check guy was a real war buff, and I think he was particularly excited to tell us about all the cool stuff in the museum (think about the audio-visual guy at your high school, and imagine him talking about weapons). I have to admit, though, that the museum is done very well. Its setup is logical, and the displays are impressive. However, both my mother and I are war imbeciles. I liked looking at the letters home that were on display, but didn't really follow much else, and my mom wasn't much better. It turns out that my mother left out a very important nugget of information...her friend that highly recommended the museum is in the military. That kind of information would have been more useful before the trek over there, but I'm glad we got to see it nonetheless. However, we both agreed that my grandfather, dad and husband would love it. On the down side, there was a huge school group (I realize I sound like a mean spinster troll, but that's not my intention), and their teachers were nowhere to be found. Lots of screaming and yelling and poking at the exhibits. If I were concentrating, I would have found it rather annoying.

After we finished in the museum, we realized that it was pouring rain. And that we had three hours to kill (since I had moved Camden Markets to Sunday, we had some free time). We decided to have some soda (pressed flower soda?) in the museum cafe, which is a bit on the depressing side (could also have been the weather). We then wandered through the gift shop, buying some souvenirs and waiting for the rain to stop. Finally, we returned to the cafe and had some tea before sucking it up and realizing that the rain was here to stay.

We walked towards the station, but not before being told by the A/V guy at the bag check that we *had* to go to the Cabinet War Rooms (he was so excited that spit was coming out of his mouth). We stopped at the first bus stop we found and decided to hop on anything going towards fun stuff. We ended up on a very crowded bus and disembarked as soon as we could push our way through the crowds. Up we looked and, yes, we were right in front of the Cabinet War Rooms. After a good chuckle, we walked past Downing Street and hopped on another, less crowded bus. We transferred to the tube at Oxford Circus and spent a while wandering around the shops at Waterloo station, loading up on pistachio nuts and pumpkin and sunflower seeds. Then it was time for another cup of tea while waiting for the Eurostar to board, and an uneventful trip home.

Last time I stated that I wanted to move to London. Now I have a guaranteed partner in crime.